I 'm having an abortion and need advice?

Samantha, this IS totally your choice & I feel you're completely entitled to what you decide. I too had an abortion when I was married. I had 3 grown children, could NOT take the tho'ts of having another child at the age I was. It was totally agreed on myself & my husband & was so many yrs. ago that NYC was the ONLY place you could go to to have it done, that's how long ago it was! I felt it was in the best interest for ALL. I'm sorry if I get thumbs down for my ans. to your post, but no one knows the circumstances of my dilemma I was in. Since your boyfriend has the attitude he says, you could either have it done, tell him you based it solely on what he'd previously stated to you & you felt this would be the best way to handle it. It would be all over & done with & I'm sure he'd be OK with your decision especially since you've already discussed it prior. OR, you can tell him before hand the same thing, that based on your agreement you've discussed, you've decided it BEST for ALL involved & you wanted to be upfront with him. You better know him, so know what would be the best way to handle it. Just please don't wait too long, do it & go forward with your life. It's YOUR freedom of choice. I DO wish you the best, honey, you WILL be OK & no doubt only laid up for a day as I was some 48-50 yrs. ago.^